top 10 tips for keeping sex fun

in relation of my previous post is this one.

After years of marriage, sex can become routine. Sometimes we need to be reminded of the basics in order to keep things fresh in the bedroom. In this list, you'll find helpful tips for keeping sex fun.  Let the Games Begin! Sometimes what makes sex fun is getting back to the basics. by Marian Liautaud Tip One: Kiss Deeply Do you remember the kind of kissing you did when you first fell in love? Do you still kiss that deeply and passionately? Rediscover passionate kissing. Tip Two: Get in the Zone Explore your erogenous zones and discover where you’re most responsive. Tip Three: Know Your Definition of Satisfaction. Make sure you and your husband both know your definition of satisfaction. Tip Four: Enjoy Sex At Every Stage Here’s what you can do to have the best sex ever no matter how old you are! Tip Five: Mix It Up Don't be afraid to try different types of sex as long as your connecting. Tip Six: Learn Your Spouse's Sexual Triggers Discovering what turns on your spouse is about more than finding her erogenous zones.  Tip Seven: Practice the Fine Art of Appreciation Overwhelm your spouse with appreciation, and watch sexual desire increase. Tip Eight: Schedule Sex Multitudes of sex therapists and marriage counselors name fatigue as the number one enemy of sexual intimacy. Tip Nine: Say "Why Not?"  Give yourself permission to enjoy sex. Be open to pleasing your lover. Take on a "Why not?" attitude. Tip Ten: Keep Practicing As we decide to have sex and find we enjoy our time of lovemaking, our libidos increase, often leading to an increased yearning to have sex more often.  sometime in my married life i really lost interest in sex, i don't know why but i really lost my enthusiasm in that love activity. imagine a young couple (we're just 2 years married) not having sex for 2 weeks or more. it could have been a great disappointment for my husband (not able to practice his human rights hehe) and i didn't really care at all. until i told my bestfriend about it and she almost poked on me for being such a selfish wife, she kept on bugging me to seek  professional help (duh?, ganon na ba ko ka grabe?) coz it's really not normal for me to feel that way considering that i'm still young and we're just 2 years married. and so i got conscious and thought there might really be something wrong with me, we (with my hub) went to an OB and there i found out that the contraceptive pills i'm taking causes my sexual drive to really decline. we decided that i'll stop taking those pills...... the result? HUBS really happy now, that's all i can say, hehe.