Monday, September 29, 2008

weekend snapshot

thank God i had my day off yesterday (sunday). since last week i had been praying that my off will fall on this day for a simple reason that Dora the explorer will be at SM pampanga (hihi). i'm excited since i saw their banners and posters- being a mom also means going back to being a child. i know my daughter will be very happy if she'll get to see Dora in person. so here are some clips of our weekend family bonding. (papa's not in the pix coz he's the one taking them): 
my dearie with Dora
won't let this day end without me posing with Dora
after seeing Dora we passed by this walk on water ball, cool!

PhotoHunt 129: View

a very nice view from the the top: cove anvaya-away from the busy life of the city.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

weekend snapshot

this may be too early to post but i have no time to post it tomorrow, got to go work very early in the morning:

here's a picture of me and my daughter (with her fave mouth gesture), taken just a while ago

what goes around comes around

a friend passed this to me on my email and i am passing this to everyone., nice story indeed.
"One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.      Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry.  He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill which only fears can put in you.  He said, 'I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.'  Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.  As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.  Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk.. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice abo! ut being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there wereplenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.  He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, 'And think of me.'  He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, anddisappear in into the twilight.  A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home.. It was a dingy lookingrestaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan .  After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back.. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin.  There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: 'You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.'  Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.  Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard....  She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, 'Everything' s going to be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson.''  There is an old saying 'What goes around comes around.' Today I sent you this story and I'm asking you to pass it on. Let this light shine.  Don't delete it, don't return it. Simply, pass this on to a friend  Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

PhotoHunt 128: Road

this is the new expressway road from clark going to subic.
see that mountain parted into two?

Saturday, September 6, 2008

PhotoHunt 126: String(s)

actually not strings but they do look like ones. these are the fireworks at the opening of the DORA playland in one of the malls here in our place. this is the first time that i brought my daughter to such kind of event and she really enjoyed it.
these i call "strings from heaven"

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

top 10 tips for keeping sex fun

in relation of my previous post is this one.
After years of marriage, sex can become routine. Sometimes we need to be reminded of the basics in order to keep things fresh in the bedroom. In this list, you'll find helpful tips for keeping sex fun.
 Let the Games Begin!
Sometimes what makes sex fun is getting back to the basics. by Marian Liautaud
Tip One: Kiss Deeply
Do you remember the kind of kissing you did when you first fell in love? Do you still kiss that deeply and passionately? Rediscover passionate kissing.
Tip Two: Get in the Zone
Explore your erogenous zones and discover where you’re most responsive.
Tip Three: Know Your Definition of Satisfaction.
Make sure you and your husband both know your definition of satisfaction.
Tip Four: Enjoy Sex At Every Stage
Here’s what you can do to have the best sex ever no matter how old you are!
Tip Five: Mix It Up
Don't be afraid to try different types of sex as long as your connecting.
Tip Six: Learn Your Spouse's Sexual Triggers
Discovering what turns on your spouse is about more than finding her erogenous zones. 
Tip Seven: Practice the Fine Art of Appreciation
Overwhelm your spouse with appreciation, and watch sexual desire increase.
Tip Eight: Schedule Sex
Multitudes of sex therapists and marriage counselors name fatigue as the number one enemy of sexual intimacy.
Tip Nine: Say "Why Not?" 
Give yourself permission to enjoy sex. Be open to pleasing your lover. Take on a "Why not?" attitude.
Tip Ten: Keep Practicing
As we decide to have sex and find we enjoy our time of lovemaking, our libidos increase, often leading to an increased yearning to have sex more often.
 sometime in my married life i really lost interest in sex, i don't know why but i really lost my enthusiasm in that love activity. imagine a young couple (we're just 2 years married) not having sex for 2 weeks or more. it could have been a great disappointment for my husband (not able to practice his human rights hehe) and i didn't really care at all. until i told my bestfriend about it and she almost poked on me for being such a selfish wife, she kept on bugging me to seek  professional help (duh?, ganon na ba ko ka grabe?) coz it's really not normal for me to feel that way considering that i'm still young and we're just 2 years married. and so i got conscious and thought there might really be something wrong with me, we (with my hub) went to an OB and there i found out that the contraceptive pills i'm taking causes my sexual drive to really decline. we decided that i'll stop taking those pills...... the result? HUBS really happy now, that's all i can say, hehe.

top 10 things your husband really needs

saw this topic in the internet and i thought of sharing this to all the wives out there. we might just need some refresher course on this, hehe.
OVERVIEW
Husbands have specific needs, but what exactly are they? We’ve boiled them down to a top ten list to encourage you to be become a more understanding wife and move forward in your relationship together. 
Introduction: Giving Him What He Wants
It’s not as simple as it seems.
by Marian Liautaud
Tip One: To show you he’s strong and capable
Beneath the surface, men wonder if they have what it takes. When men compete, they’re often captured by the challenge to prove themselves.
Tip Two: To Dream With You
Is there something your husband always longed to do when you were first married, but he’s stopped mentioning it now that you’re busy with daily life?
Tip Three: To Share His Interests With You
It’s easy for the pressures of life to crowd out the fun. Take the things your spouse likes to do and find ways to make them enjoyable for both of you. 
Tip Four: To Love You As Best He Can
Many women compare their friendships with men's. Watch men interact with each other before you conclude they avoid close relationships.
Tip Five: To Be Respected And Admired
Men desire to be respected and admired from the women they love. Become an expert on your spouse and learn to praise his strengths.
Tip Six: To Communicate And Be Close To You
Most men want intimacy with their wives—and not just sexually. Men want to understand your rules but are confused when they seem unclear. 
Tip Seven: To Find Purpose And Significance
God created us with a deep desire for meaning and significance. Learn how to encourage your husband.
Tip Eight: To Hear Your Gratitude
Many women hold back sincere affirmations. Know that your positive words will pave the way for your husband to do the same.
Tip Nine: To Know You’re On His Side
You and your husband are a lifelong team. When your husband has a problem, it’s your problem, too. A husband longs to know he’s not alone.
Tip Ten: To Have Sex…And Plenty Of It!
Physical intimacy can be a barometer for your relationship. Your husband may see your physical intimacy as a signal that he’s doing fine at home.

Monday, September 1, 2008

weekend snapshot

saw this mother and child fairy/angel while doing some household chores, so close just like me and my daughter