Saturday, June 20, 2009

MY BFs

"A person may have many friends, but there will usually be one who is preferred among the rest, either male or female. This may be a friend you have talked with more, who knows more about you, and whom you know more about. A best friend is one you feel you can rely on to help you more than others, and one whom you would be more likely to help, in times of need." - wikianswers.com indeed it's true, all of us have bestfriends and i'm glad to have not just one but three super bestfriends... cheng, thet, tey. cheng is my bestfriend since highschool, a sister by heart, someone whom i can show my true me, i can tell her everything and show her even my darkest side, hehe, yet she still loves me and never judged me. she's the one i run to whenever i have a problem especially financial, hehe. she would always lend a helping hand without any questions, without any doubts. we seldom see and text each other now but the tie that bonds us is still very strong, unbreakable.. not to mention she's married to my cousin, so legally we're cousin now =). i met thet during my job offer in my first job, she looks suplada at first but then she was the one who opened our conversation, and that was the start of our being the best buddies. we stayed in the same boarding house for about two months and it really deepened our frienship. we are so totally different in fact, but those differences made us more the best of friends. she was the one who thought me how to put on make up, i met FHM and COSMO thru her (hehehe), i learned what safe sex is coz she's so opened about those kind of topics and i really appreciate it. we had plenty of weird experiences, some of which are still kept secret till now, hehehe (it's just between the two of us). tey was one of my co-manager, it never really occurred to me that we'll be the best of friends but certain circumstances came in our way which led us to be more bonded. respect and sincerity, that's what we had that made our frienship one of a kind., i learned a lot from he especially about life, i admire her on how she manages hers...God-centered. i can say that we've been through a lot specially in our past job but those trials made us stronger and more attached to each other, we drew strength from one another. we promised to to hold on to our friendship til we grow old and we'll passed it on to our daughters who are just the same age, yes they are of the same age coz by the strike of fate we both got pregnant (unplanned) on the same year, i'm just 2 months ahead of her. and though we're not on the same work now we still have plans of working together soon.